The Cycle of Love

Most of the things in this world go around and are cycles, and altough you may ask me about several things that I may know a lot about when it comes to love, I am barely graduating from Kindergarden.

What I do know it is that any type of relationship at the beginning stages is like a cycle and I mean all kinds of love (friends, family, relationships). All of them join under one giant truth that we must face: "Human Beings Want What They Can't Have". And don't even deny it, remember in High School if you were not popular you wanted to be popular and if you were popular you wanted to hang out with the College or Older people, everybody looks up a notch. If you are well, in the middle class, you get nervous and look forward to hang out with "high class" people regardless if they are actually good persons or not.

When it comes to love we usually want that person that well, may not be interested like we are. We don't want to be first priority we want the challenge of wanting something that may seem difficult. And chances are, in a challenge you oughta get hurt if you lose.

How do we break the pattern? Well I learned one way, let's say you like this certain person right? This person is most likely into someone else, who in exchange is not interested like you are in the person you like, the cycle continues goin down or up as you may see it? Lost? It's easy we want want we can't have at the same time than that one that we like is likely to want what they can't have as well. We like the attention no doubt but really if the person wants it to happen they will most likely make it happen. This is good for most relationships (love, friendship, platonic).

A cycle goes round and round in one direction. And the only way to break it is to flow in the opposite direction. BY THIS I DON'T MEAN force yourself to respond to someone that likes you/looks up to you, but certainly try to understand what they saw in you, why are you the chosen one, every single human has something called dignity and even one person's attention should be enough for you to look into it. Find out what they saw, why they saw it, and when they saw it....Only then you will learn to not only break the cycle, but you will learn to love yourself.