The Cycle of Love

Most of the things in this world go around and are cycles, and altough you may ask me about several things that I may know a lot about when it comes to love, I am barely graduating from Kindergarden.

What I do know it is that any type of relationship at the beginning stages is like a cycle and I mean all kinds of love (friends, family, relationships). All of them join under one giant truth that we must face: "Human Beings Want What They Can't Have". And don't even deny it, remember in High School if you were not popular you wanted to be popular and if you were popular you wanted to hang out with the College or Older people, everybody looks up a notch. If you are well, in the middle class, you get nervous and look forward to hang out with "high class" people regardless if they are actually good persons or not.

When it comes to love we usually want that person that well, may not be interested like we are. We don't want to be first priority we want the challenge of wanting something that may seem difficult. And chances are, in a challenge you oughta get hurt if you lose.

How do we break the pattern? Well I learned one way, let's say you like this certain person right? This person is most likely into someone else, who in exchange is not interested like you are in the person you like, the cycle continues goin down or up as you may see it? Lost? It's easy we want want we can't have at the same time than that one that we like is likely to want what they can't have as well. We like the attention no doubt but really if the person wants it to happen they will most likely make it happen. This is good for most relationships (love, friendship, platonic).

A cycle goes round and round in one direction. And the only way to break it is to flow in the opposite direction. BY THIS I DON'T MEAN force yourself to respond to someone that likes you/looks up to you, but certainly try to understand what they saw in you, why are you the chosen one, every single human has something called dignity and even one person's attention should be enough for you to look into it. Find out what they saw, why they saw it, and when they saw it....Only then you will learn to not only break the cycle, but you will learn to love yourself.

Times of Terror

My first Blog Entry

Well so here I am joining the world of blogging a little late (wondering if my mom was going to have a blog before I do, but I beat her to it phew!). I decided to create a blog because of my constant need to tell the world how I feel about certain things, and since I can not start screaming in the middle of the street or in my job (god forbid) I will do it here. Which got me thinking, why do we as a generation 2000's kid have the need to constantly tell the world how we feel? By generation 2000's I mean all of us who where well um, adults during last decade and continue to do so (I will not put an age number in it to not create controversy). Our generation, the older generations say, is glued to phones, computers and the constant thought of us being the center of attention, but it wasn't us who marched in front of governement buildings trying to speak our minds (the 60's) or decided to wear the weirdest and outrageous clothes and hairstyles to make a statement (the 80's), or god forbid created a technology so we can all communicate better (the 90's). In the 2010's decade we blog, we have radars to meet people, we sext and we share VIDEOS online to make each other smile or - mad. Having said that my blog will make people mad and smile at the same time, and altough I am very blessed with my life I have a lot to say that needs to leave my brain as it is crowded enough in there right now...Having said that, todays thought was just to make a statement that our generation is just trying to communicate in their own way, but I might add with an addition of that sexual liberation touch (the 60's, 70's), Outrageous 'I don't care what you think' attitude (The 80's) , the need to SAY something (the 90's) and who can forget the little touch of guilt against human rights (the last century).

So are we doing good? I might say so, never before have we seen the liberation of information like now (Wikileaks), the gay/womeninthemiddleeast/animal rights expand, and the need of religion to NEVER be a state matter. We still need to do more to understand that really we all live in the same house, and everybody is to clean their own room without messing with your roomates, and that my friends is the only way we can continue leasing our Blue home.